Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit
This is a good summation I think MA.......
Because of the control dynamics involved, one of the basics of poly involves giving up that control option.
And I know that in many cases, after you do that, your example is the way that's left to flow.
You either choose to accept SOME risk and try to work towards something better long term - or you call a spade a spade - and bail !
Every situation is unique and everyone's willingness or ability to risk is different. So the "bail point" moves..........
Glad it resonated with you. I like the way you put a finer point on it. Giving up control, taking some risk, and committing to growth is inherent in making this shift.