Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
I think you've got the right attitude to give this the best shot you can
Are you poly?
I'm not sure I can answer that question in a satisfactory way, for two reasons. First, I'm not a huge fan of labels. I find them constricting and necessarily inadequate representations of reality (woah, I didn't mean for that to sound as philosophical as it did). I prefer to leave my relationship with my partner as undefined as possible, hence the 'non-monogamous' anti-label label... if that makes any sense :S. And second, I'm not so up to speed with the lingo surrounding non-monogamous stuff.
We ARE in a committed and loving relationship, and we have agreed that we are both allowed to go out and see/date/one night stand/sleep with/etc other people, so long as we tell the other person beforehand (if this is possible... can't quite with random one night stands...) and maintain completely honest communication with one another.
Am I poly?