Sorry for my ramblings. She has since remedied these behaviors, for the most part. I was thinking back to things she was doing. She changed when she realized how close she was to losing me.
I think the reason she acted that way is because of her insecurity. Because of her insecurity she needed to constantly test the relationship to reassure herself. And in her mind at the time, when I failed it was because I didn't love her rather than it was an impossible situation she created.
She has since realized that acting the way she did caused her to almost lose me. Ironic really, being scared of losing me made her act in a way that almost did cause her to lose me.
Sorry, just thinking things out loud.