Just wanted to give you all an update. I have come to the decision that I can't handle my husband having a girlfriend. My brain understands that he will not leave me for her, but my heart and guts just can't handle it.
After a long day, we have all three come to an agreement to remain friends. On one hand I am so sad that I have to break it off with my girlfriend, on the other hand I am so relieved that hubby does NOT have one.
Best of luck to everyone who attempts this type of relationship. You are all stronger than I am.