Sorry for the double post, but this thread is moving fast. As I was writing, you mentioned your wife cut a lover's name into her arm. And she is struggling with depression as well, and using NRE to mask her pain?
Hmmm, some deep stuff going on here... kinda scary. Did you know she was a cutter all the time?
Did you know being a NRE junkie is not being poly?
As others here have said, it would be interesting to have your fiancee post here as well.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37