My wife are a bit different....We have a mentality of......FUCK EM! If they can't take a joke, fuck em....and if they can't take a fuck....JOKE EM! LOL
Honestly though...We told HER parents...They were supportive. As was my mom....and our kids....and our friends. Now, not everyone completely UNDERSTANDS or agrees with our lifestyle, but they ALL understand that L and I are deeply in love, and if this helps us to keep that flame alive, then GREAT! Some of our friends have said "No way I could do that!" To which we respond with "It doesn't work for everyone, and while you are good looking and cute, we're not trying to pick you up." whihc sets them at ease.
Take it with a grain of salt and let the chips fall where they may. Let whoever wants to out you, out you if they want to. They will eventually anyway.......
There is a lid for every pot...Sometimes even two or three...