If it really is a phase and you push your hubby into it... that will damage your relationship.
If its real, it will last, love doesn't die overnight... and if you are poly, then likely there will be others. Give your hubby time to come to grips with everything going on for you... do the work you need to do to understand yourself - so when he asks questions that are hard to answer now - you can answer them honestly and as concisely as possible - you can't expect him to do the work to accept this change, unless you do the work too.
Other than that - big hugs... I hear you.
Smile! It makes people wonder what you've been up to
Engaged to my sweetheart, WaterWolf
Last edited by FlameKat; 04-01-2011 at 03:40 PM.