There always seems to be drama around a wedding... Yours is not unique. Whether it is the rumors of pregnancy, the whispers about an ex-lover or just rumblings about the poor timing, poor choice of spouse or family illness..the list goes on...
Your family wants you to be happy. Even the poorly timed 'Jesus lectures' are because they want you to be saved, and therefore (in their minds) happy.
Breathe in, breathe out. This is just a variation of the usual drama. In 5 years, you'll laugh about it... But right now, look into the eyes of the people who love you .... smile.
You are loved.