View Single Post
Old 03-31-2011, 08:45 PM
Myrddin Myrddin is offline
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 6

Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn
Coming out as a bisexual after 10 years of closet-cleaning has been the best decision I've ever made, and I would never allow anyone to stuff me back in that musty old thing over being poly or whatever again.
Very healthy attitude.

To clarify: I can imagine myself coming out as gay or bi (if I was gay or bi). I can imagine myself coming out as poly if I was poly. I can't imagine myself coming out as "involuntarily poly".

Originally Posted by bkreader
This may seem like an obvious answer, but the best thing to do would be to just ask her about all those things you're worried about. I know how easy it can be to be insecure about things, but by discussing poly it sounds like she wants your relationship to work.
Until I have more solid information to go on, I think I'll give bkreader the last word here. Thanks for your help everyone. I'll let you know how it goes.
Reply With Quote