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Old 03-31-2011, 08:26 PM
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Do you and your husband have scheduled date nights? If not, you should def make that a part of your relationship. Have dates, buy sexy underwear, etc. You need to feel just as special to him as she is, not just the wife he comes home to and does family type stuff with.
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