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Old 03-31-2011, 06:37 PM
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This is a big red flag for me. Could it have been the gf that told your parents?
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I was wondering the same thing.
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My suspicious little mind was contemplating this thought also...
Oh, dear. I hadn't thought of it before, but as we learn more about the dynamics here, it kind of makes sense. Koifish, do you think she would be capable of this? Or might be a bit of a cowgirl?
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