Originally Posted by JRiverMartin
Perhaps, you worry (consciously or otherwise) that there may be jealousies arising from inequal attention to your lovers-in-the-same-room?
Primarily, I worry that people don't say what they mean, don't know what they want, and claim not to mind when they really mind a whole lot. I don't have any experience with this, and I have to rely on what people communicate. But my wife is just about the shittiest communicator on the planet, so I'm relying on something completely unreliable.