I guess thats a good point. I am 20 almost 21 and my partner is 20. Our potential new partner is 18. The number thing really isnt an issue from what I can see, its maturity. This guy is pretty mature for his age but I still worry about his relationship history, he has none. He hasn't ever had a "bf" so his issue is that. lol I really don't know where I am going with this.