Originally Posted by SNeacail
Have you talked to her about this? It's not uncommon for the sex drive to shift gears and even dissapear during pregnancy. We also go through completely irrational stages where we don't want anyone to see our bodies, because we are afraid they will think we're ugly. If you haven't discussed this with her you should. She may need just as much reassurance and doesn't know how to ask for it.
We've talked about it enough to make me feel we're on the same page. I've told her that I miss our physical closeness, both sexual and just in terms of cuddling, and she's explained how she needs space and said that maybe it's a nesting thing, just wanting to be close to her baby's other parent. She and Eric are having sex very occasionally, she said.