Originally Posted by DarkHorseJ27
Does it ever completely go away?
Not if one or more of the parties are in denial about it.
If she's putting ALL of the blame on you and to this day her parents think you cheated on her not the other way around, then I would say that at LEAST one of you (her) is still in denial.
Ever heard of a little list called the "12 steps"?
See Steps 4, 8, 9, and 10.
(I don't care too much about the other, quasi-religious steps.)