Originally Posted by lookatmues
She seems to change her mind on what she wants or how she feels about certain aspects, such as the “primary relationship” issue, which makes it hard to keep up at times, but I still love her very much and I don’t want to quit on us. It’s all very new and strange right now, but I want nothing more than to grow to accept her for every aspect of her life, even those that scare me at first. She’s totally worth it.
I’m open to any advice or questions you may have. Thanks!
Maybe leave the label aside for now? not question whether you are primary or not and ask her to drop the label too?
Focus instead on the quality of your relationship and how you feel while together...
while apart it is your part of things to trust her and work on your own issues...