I think it really does simply depend on the people in any given dynamic.
For me, it was easy to "come out". I don't give a SHIT what anyone else thinks. I love two men. End of topic unless they want to have a friendly talk about HOW.
At the same time,
I've ALWAYS been that way. I was the same way when I came out as having just gotten a girlfriend.
I was that way when I came out bi.
I was that way when I told everyone I was pregnant (out of wedlock).
I just don't care.
It was harder for Maca and GG-because they don't tend to be the type to speak up AND they are both worried about offending others.
pretty much everyone in my life knows.
Most of Maca's coworkers do not know.
Some of GG's don't know.
"Love As Thou Wilt"