I love my wife, it was the initial shock factor that she didn't take well to. Shes known I was different for a long time, but the idea of actually moving forward is hard for her.
She got back to me last night saying go ahead and take the first step, I love you for who you are. I got to tell her I would wait a day to show her that I care about how this effects her, and she says that is what is important to her.
Rough start, but things seem to be going well. It is nice to have a community of people who feel the same way as I do. The world felt somewhat lonely when it seemed no one understood me.