SW has never acted in word or deed like a man who thinks so little of women. I've met several of his exes, who all spoke well of him and are still friends with him. In fact, this was a major factor in my decision to date him. He just doesn't have a history of being irresponsible or dismissive in that "OLD SCHOOL" way. This is partly why I am bothered, it's so out of character for him.
Also I keep reminding myself that I'm probably not pregnant, that mistakes happen, to breathe and that it will be ok.
I did take a morning after pill the next morning. So I've done all I can do to prevent pregnancy. I've been flipflopping between trying not to think about what to do if I am pregnant and mulling over different scenarios in my head. I'm not ruling out abortion definitively-just that I'm not comfortable with it. If I end up having to make this decision, it will be fully thought out.
Thank you for the words about unprotected sex happening to me. It was a different perspective I hadn't thought about.
Oh yeah, we had that talk. We're very clear now. This won't happen again.
I don't know if he would want to be a father. I don't know if I would drop a child into that relationship - they are not that stable together yet.