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Old 03-27-2011, 12:50 AM
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Freetime, you definitely do not sound like you are playing the victim or martyr!! You are indeed coming across as very human and real. I am so happy for you that you and T. discussed the situation further and came up with some workable boundaries. Lessons learned, eh? And ain't that what life's about?

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