Originally Posted by redpepper
This is all what I would do of course and I am not you. Take what you want and leave what you want. It's up to you. To me it would produce a life that is both happy and full of strong relationships based on high self esteem and good boundaries.... again, this is just what works for me.
You always have the best advice, seriously! I agree..there have been some happy times. I think my main issues is that I'm struggling with being so new to poly and having a hard time with the sharing part. Of course he realizes he was not paying attention to me quite as much which in part, caused me to have major doubts. He promises to change all that AND help around the house more. Only time will tell, but so far he is trying.