I agree with Tonberry that you haven't really been clear by what happened to every detail. Also with NYCindie that your relationship with your SO doesn't exactly seem all that stable in iteself to be trying to find another relationship as of yet.
I also don't understand this term "homewrecker". If a relationship is wrecked, it is the fault of whoever is in that relationship. Nobody outside that can harm a strong bond between others.
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