I think part of the problem in your situation might not necessarily be withdrawal, but simply hope. As I recall, your fiancÚ's best friend continues to make contact every now and again, and this really seems to hinder any progress you make healing.
At some point, you might find that you need to cut contact to heal. The carrot of hope being dangled in front of you is not helpful at all. Maybe you won't need to do this permanently, but certainly in the short term, for your own sake.
Last edited by TruckerPete; 03-25-2011 at 11:15 AM.