I don't see how arguing about any of this is helpful. I think it's great to read what works for everyone as pertains to this topic -- isn't it? -- and there really is no need to make someone wrong and someone right. I am sure the OP just wanted some different viewpoints and opinions, not a debate (which gets to be pretty damn tedious to read).
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