Honey. Move on. Get your act together and move on. You have one life to live and one chance to live it. Seriously, I feel a panic attack coming on just thinking of how I would do if I were in that kind of life. You are young yet and there is so much to do! You will find people like you everywhere, just go find them. Community as you see it is just around the corner. Freeing yourself from your present situatoin is the first step.
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