That is a really good idea to see how you and your partner settle. It could just be that you are in dire need of some company from someone close and connected to you in the way he is. Never know right?
Is it possible that you need some close friends rather than other lovers? Or a lover that is not sexual? I just wonder because it seems that your interest might be more on the side of closeness than sex... just a thought.
Yes, metamours being able to get along makes everything go more smoothly for sure. Even better if they like each other and spend time together. That all adds up to better communication, and more stability it seems...
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