Originally Posted by Ariakas
For the record I do see a lot of poly people that claim to only want love and not be concerned for the sex... maybe its my cynical side, but I just can't believe them. Maybe if they were more honest about their needs they might find their preferred gender more approachable. I wonder how many of those guys having problems picking up poly women are having that problem because they aren't being honest about a portion of their intentions (with themselves or others).
Absolutely! Of course false claims of intention are not a poly issue, they're a relationship issue in general.
Of course in poly, there's a chance that if you get burnt you'll have your other lover(s) to go to for support and love.