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Old 03-23-2011, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG View Post
I heard what she said..I just don't agree with it. But again it comes down to thriving as an individual or just living.
Although it feels wrong to get back to this issue after such a delightful foray into the world of liquids, I have to suggest Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs as one model some folks might find useful when trying to conceptualize 'needs'.

Myself, I agree with Mono; I prefer to want the things I want versus wanting the things I need. In my understanding, using the word 'need' might masquerade some dependency and addiction issues I have, whereas realizing that I need very little but want a lot to me is about realizing our own power in choosing and acting on our choices.
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