I (Kris) agree, just because it didn't start as an equal relationship, does not mean that it can not grow into one.
We started the same, as just looking for a sexual partner, but we found the relationship that developed was MUCH more rewarding & filled a part of us we didn't know was missing.
the main key is Talking & Honesty, tell it like it is & don't hide anything.
Everyone's feelings are important!
-- Posted by Kris
"Imagine a life, alien to yours. In which your memories were not your own, but those shared by every other of your kind. Imagine the torment of that existence, no experiences to call your own."
"If it was all you knew, maybe it would be a comfort"
"What if you were to discover something different... Something better..."