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Old 03-21-2011, 08:30 PM
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It's entirely possible that you are poly but I would take a good look at why those feelings of fear occur. I don't think that they'd disappear in a poly relationship. Imagine how it might feel if you had multiple partners. Imagine if your partner had another lover. Is that what you want in life? Are you thinking about poly so that you can avoid dealing with your fears? Only you'll be able to answer. It sounds like your fears are substantial and regardless of whether you're poly or mono or something else, you'll need to work through them.
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