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Old 03-21-2011, 06:09 PM
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I'd say it's too early in your relationship to be considering her a serious girlfriend. So what if someone else becomes her "primary?" Labels suck. Just worry about whether or not you get your needs met. Oh, and keep looking. It is harder for guys to meet women in general, but you have to put yourself out there in all possible social situations, as well as online at OKC, etc. Good luck.
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