Ok, pardon me for not picking up on it, but was the "boundary" which was "crossed", a fluid bonding? If so, Pretty has endangered ALL of you, and my opinion, would be to cut it off for a while....but that's just me. And, if you look at any of my posts in any of my blogs, I tend to be kind of a fatalist. So...yeah...There is my opinion. Take it...or leave it.
Best of luck to all of you.