Originally Posted by dag
I had one rather disastrous open relationship about a year ago and then was single for almost a year before meeting my current girlfriend in February. Once we started to get serious together I explained how I was poly and why.
Just for clarification, you met her last month? Or do you mean February of the previous year?
My husband has had a similar problem with poly, in that he finds it hard to find partners (as in virtually impossible) while I am happily involved with my boyfriend. I could easily find additional partners, though am uninterested in casual connections.
The disparity is a source of frustration for him. There's not much to be done about it other than I try to be there for him and occasionally play wingman.