Good question. I'd love to know too. I'm not really a date kinda guy. I've never been into it. I enjoy cuddling on the sofa and watching a good film and all that cheesy crap. =P I get to know people over time and build strong friendships before I really love them. I guess it puts me back quite a lot. =P The closest poly group I can find is in another city over too. Which isn't financially viable for me, unfortunately.
I'm pretty much buggered for ever having myself a poly relationship.