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Old 09-18-2009, 01:52 AM
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Originally Posted by JRiverMartin View Post
What you need to figure out is whether it all comes down to the real human constraint we all have on hours in the day and week, or something else. Only then can you move forward in understanding why you want to place a constraint, and whether that is a reasonable desire on your part. Etc.
Good point JRM.

I know 100% that my need for this boundry has little to do with time and lots to do with how I value sexual intimacy within relationships as well as some other more basic things that are even too private for me to share. I think the word constraint needs to be dropped in her vocabulary as well. All relationships have boundaries which could be worded as constraints.

If everyone is truly happy than no one is truly constrained.
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