You like topping or bottoming? You're a switch. Women can Top. That doesn't make them more masculine. Men can bottom. Doesn't make them more feminine.
Genderqueer doesn't have anything to do with sexual preference. It's identity. You feel you fall somewhere on the spectrum between femme and butch.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, poly, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, poly, 37