I had those kind of dreams while my husband and I were separating.
I've just finished a guest post for another blog in the niche of my main blog (not poly people). She wanted my story, (not the poly one). It brought up for me feelings I had prior to my marriage breakup. I always saw myself in a cage and couldn't figure out how to get out. Now I realise that cage was only ever made of one thing - my own fears.
Blessings, love and light to you LR, may you be all that your forum name implies.