PenguinDreams - I'm trying to organize a "family meeting" to talk this through.
Nycindie - I don't want to fling accusations, but yeah, I kinda do wonder if she's trying to have him all to herself.
He is moving into his own room, though, not hers; I totally agree that "one person per bedroom" is a good idea for our situation. (For clutter control as much as romantic/sexual purposes.)
SNeacail - I know I don't have the right to demand it! But I do have the right to ask for it.
And just because something isn't my "right" doesn't mean it can't be really hurtful not to get it. I have no RIGHT to have a boyfriend at all, but I'm still pretty wounded feeling like he's being maneuvered away from me.