@ray- um me? This person is saying he has discovered he is poly, not mono with a poly. Other way around, although the members you suggested are awesome and well worth reading about. However, seeing as this is a forum for poly people, you have come to the right place SA. I would suggest reading some threads about the situation you are in. If you do a search for "mono/poly" or the lilke, you will have no trouble finding info. Ray has some very good points there however. I agree with all of them myself.
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