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Old 03-17-2011, 08:33 PM
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I ask if her actions are consentual. Did she agree to all parts of what appeared to be going on in those pictures or was he forcing and manipulating her. Abuse is not part of BDSM. There are big differences. At least there should be. It could mean a big difference to how your meeting goes to understand this.
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