Originally Posted by Cat
My opinion is I rather have them know we are poly and that it's all good, than being seen as cheating. Lobster would prefer to not let anyone know and I'm not sure that's going to be possible in our little clique.
yes, letting people know you are poly so as to be sure all of you are not affected negatively is a good idea I think. People on here who have met and started dating have announced it when they start being partners (we already know they are poly pretty much
) That to me is the best time. Everything happens behind the scenes so as to not be disrespectful to anyone.