Lucky lucky both of us. To have people in our lives that love us so much, and allow us to love them.
I know that tommyc will tell me if and when things change for him. He will give me a choice. That's what love is all about. I keep thinking that it's possible that even though he is definitely poly, maybe what the three of us share is what his heart is looking for. I know he's what my heart is looking for.