Thanks Carma, Any advice on meeting him? guidelines, topics,?
To clear up some confusion I've caused here, the potential BF doesn't know he's a potential yet. My wife met him at an event, they hit it off and have met a couple of times since at other events where she realized she wanted to approach him about having a relationship. She had set up the meet to get together bring it up with him, but he canceled. Well actually he didn't bother to call her and cancel he just didn't call her at all to confirm it. Hmmmmmmm
We've discussed how funny it is that I and her have experienced so much emotional turmoil and excitement over something that hasn't happened yet and someone who's completely unaware of whats going on. Weird little world Aint it?