go for it
I am in a V. I have been married for 10 years and have been with my partner for 7 years. What an amazing journey it has been. I believe that you can love more than one person. For us we all have a mutual respect and love for each other. The two men are not sexual with each other they are just best friends. We all bring different things to the table and it just works. We have had our share of bumps in the road and Im sure we have more ahead. But what relationship doesn't? My advice to you would be that all 3 of you need to be into the situation or it won't work. All three of you needs to always think of the other person. Also, jealousy can't be in the equation or you will drive each other crazy. This situation is definitely not for everyone , but with the right three people it can be so fulfilling for sure. I will be happy to share more of my experiences with you.