Since I'd been with some one who was with some one else, I've always wondered what it'd be like for me to be dating two people. Or have my primary partner (if I had one) decide to date some one else. I guess I won't really know unless it happens someday. But I fall in love so infrequently, I doubt I'll be worrying about it in the near future. Maybe you and your wife will have a poly/mono relationship. Do you think you'd be interested in dating others?
Isn't it funny how we typically imagine things to be one way and we're so often completely wrong about what the other person was thinking/feeling? On a lighter note, what kind of martial arts have you done?