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Old 03-11-2011, 09:45 PM
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Hell yeah, honey, you're angry!

I think you have every right to be. Now just make sure you do something constructive with that anger and ask for what you need from him. I do believe relationships can heal. My own marriage is ending because my husband was unwilling to repair it and made up his mind to leave, but I have seen friends whose relationships had deteriorated to such lows you would not believe and still were able to bounce back, forgive, and move on. Even a close friend who was subjected to physical abuse was able to forgive and make it into something better. But it took courage and a willingness to say, "I won't put up with this shit anymore!" as well as her partner admitting where he went wrong and being willing to work together with her on healing the relationship.
The world opens up... when you do.

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