Originally Posted by ray
None of our friends knew that we were together because he wanted it to be a secret so they all just think I'm depressed for no good reason. When I tried to go to an event it was painful watching him be fine, laughing, joking while I could barely muster up a smile or a conversation.
Ah, hun ... I'd wondered if they knew yet, or were still in the dark. I'm so sorry.
Are there any members of the group you're closer to? What I mean is, could you choose a few to hang out with while you heal, and skip some group events for the time being?