Thank you quath.. I'm so nervous and excited at the same time. I'm scared she'll not like me, or that I'll do or say something to make her feel threatened or make him lose interest in me... your words are a comfort, especially as this is a bit new to me to be able to talk about it with anyone who knows me just yet... I need to sort the pieces out in my own head before I do that. If anyone has any last minute words of wisdom on how best to handle this situation, I am all ears. My knowledge pool on this topic is a big fat zero.. so I value the voice/s of experience.