Thread: Poly Surprises?
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Old 03-10-2011, 08:02 PM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Originally Posted by MindfulAgony View Post
My biggest surprise about being poly is the reality that one relationship doesn't "make up" for the others. This hit me after one of my relationships ended abruptly due to things outside my control. I was absolutely devastated and inconsolable.
I would agree with this. Also, for me, in the same light, if I am interested in having some time with one, the other can't just slide into that slot. Its very discernible in my head. Although that is something I am trying to work on.
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