Originally Posted by bluevictoria
I guess the next step is to talk to the nanny/housekeeper/mommy-wanna-be/girlfriend.
Or to walk away with head held high that you're doing something that supports you.
I agree with River and LR. It doesn't sound like love to me. It sounds like addiction and dependency. You don't want to feel as crappy as this relationship makes you feel but you keep going back for more. You're like an addict. Love should have respect and caring as major components. You don't sound like he respects you, nor do you sound like you are respecting yourself by staying.
It sounds like your bf is in a relationship with someone who is taking advantage of him, too, by the way you describe her. Ick!
Walking away will be hard but you can do it.